Yesterday we discussed the elements of discipleship. Today I would like to expand on one of these: touch. I remember years ago a study of newborns which demonstrated the power of touch for these young ones. One set of newborns were touched and held regularly and the other group was not. There was a demonstrated difference in the health of the two groups.
The power of touch continues well past the new born stage. One of the most dramatic parts of a Kairos weekend is watching how the residents go from being sullen and withdrawn to smiling at the hugs and touches from those who offer unconditional love.
I believe we can judge the status of relationship by the fervor of touch. I greatly look forward for the first day my great grandchild is back with us. I know I will be kissed and hugged enthusiastically. We seem to lose that free spirit of touch as we get older. We need to be careful that we not lose that enthusiasm of touch. Are we willing to reach out and touch those we say we love? We live in a world that greatly needs a “touch” from above; but we live in houses with others who also need to know they are loved. That knowledge is best passed by simple touch.
Reach out and touch and pass the blessing.
Nick
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