Nick’s Walk

The Christmas Season has officially kicked off.  All the Thanksgiving leftovers are gone. Names have been pulled for gift giving. For some, decorations are up. For others, the boxes of decorations are at least out of the closet. What next? Stress. Admit it. You are already starting to feel the stress. The resolution to not get stressed out this year is already faded. The idea that you will have a simple, Christ centered Christmas this year…already forgotten. It’s not to late to have a stress free Christmas.  Here are some ideas: Pray – When  you start to feel that stress rise within, pray. Start each day asking God to tell you what to do today. Ask Him for His priority for your day. All that needs to get done, will get done. It may not be that you will do more, you just might realize that there is a lot less that really NEEDS to be done. Schedule – Before you rush off shopping stop and make a schedule. List the things you want to accomplish this holiday season. It can include a list of gifts you have to buy or at least persons you have to buy for, […]

Last night I watched the movie “Fireproof” on CMT.  It was great to see a movie promoting faith in Christ so directly on a television network. I had heard about the movie for years but had never seen it. Don’t know how I missed it but I had. If you haven’t seen it, check it out. I won’t be a spoiler, but the movie is essentially about a man taking the 40 day “love dare” and experiencing God putting his life and marriage back together.  The dynamic that struck me was what the wife, and I guess most folks, really want to see in a partner.  In the course of the film, the struggling husband slowly begins to display these characteristics. We want to be men of God and we want to be known as men of God. What does that require? 1. People need to see your faith. It’s much too common for folks, especially men, to believe that it’s important to be seen as self-reliant. The problem is we aren’t everything we need to be and can’t do everything, or even anything. on our own. It’s important that we are seen as relying on God. 2. People […]

“I wrote you in my earlier letter that you shouldn’t make yourselves at home among the sexually promiscuous. I didn’t mean that you should have nothing at all to do with outsiders of that sort. Or with crooks, whether blue- or white-collar. Or with spiritual phonies, for that matter. You’d have to leave the world entirely to do that! … I’m not responsible for what the outsiders do, but don’t we have some responsibility for those within our community of believers? God decides on the outsiders, but we need to decide when our brothers and sisters are out of line and, if necessary, clean house. (I Cor. 5:9-13, The Message) Sometimes I love the direct language of The Message. Since the election, it has been fascinating to see all the articles about how bad our country is. Some are saying the culture war is lost. Others bemoan the loss of our status as a “Christian Nation.” Some are saying judgment is upon us. God destroyed cities when he couldn’t find 10 righteous folks. As I read somewhere today, I have more than that on my Facebook page.Jesus never suggested that we were in a war we could  win in the […]

2 Timothy 4:3 New International Version (NIV) 3 For the time will come when people will not put up with sound doctrine.

Thanksgiving is tomorrow. I have a couple of last minute tips. I realize that these may fall squarely in the “none of your business” category but I mess in your business every day so why should Thanksgiving be any different. First, I pray that you have someone special in your life that makes you look forward to tomorrow. If at first you draw a blank, I suggest you aren’t looking hard enough. I have several: all the women in my life, my wife, my daughter, my grand daughter, my great grand daughter. If you were thinking something else, shame on you. There are lots of others too. But without sounding too spiritual, there’s Jesus. He makes me look forward to tomorrow which I know with Him will bring another chance to get it right and another chance to start over. Thanks for them all. Next, please join me in boycotting Black Thursday. Enough is enough. Do we really have to rush through our dinners and abandon our families to get to the mall and the box stores on Thanksgiving Day? Are you really going to save that much? Is it really worth it? The folks you will be abandoning […]

It really is the holiday season. The stores are decorated for Christmas. Remember when they used to wait until after Thanksgiving? I am already thinking about Christmas cards and gifts. It seems to me that we miss one of our great opportunities as Christians during the holiday season. You would think that beginning with Thanksgiving, folks would be thinking of spiritual things. After all, we give thanks to God and then we begin to focus on the birth of His son. But it doesn’t seem to work that way. We have managed to have Thanksgiving without being thankful to GOD and the war to take Jesus out of Christmas is waging stronger than ever. You don’t even see the “Keep Christ in Christmas” signs any more. People seem to acknowledge the value of being thankful or of giving gifts. They just don’t want to talk about the Gift Giver. We seem to believe that we can separate Christian Values from Christ.  A recent letter to columnist Carolyn Hax of The Washington Post seemed straightforward enough. “I am a stay-at-home mother of four who has tried to raise my family under the same strong Christian values that I grew up with,” the […]

It must be the holiday season. I’ve gotten the first of many “What Do They Need” calls from relatives. They want to know what the people I know a little bit better than they do “need” or “want” for Christmas. I find these calls difficult because I don’t usually have a good answer and I never know sizes or favorite colors. It is the season for trying to fill needs. The big problem is that we don’t really know what we need, let alone anyone else. We will hustle around for the next month looking for the “best” gift for folks we care a lot about and those we just feel “obligated” to buy something for. On Christmas morning we will nervously watch the gifts being opened in the hope of seeing a genuine look of delight instead of the smile covering the “I don’t know what he was thinking” face.  It’s a good time to examine what we need ourselves. Much of our gift buying and meal planning and decorating seeks to compensate for what we didn’t quite live up to during the year. We might buy a loved one something a little more special than usual because […]

 Last night I took the grandkids to the UL football game. It was a great experience. They enjoyed getting their faces painted and listening to the music before the game. We sat where they could play on the hill slope in the end zone. They didn’t watch much of the game but had a blast. There was a terrific half-time show honoring the military and a beautiful fireworks display. The game was great, full of exciting plays with the lead changing sides several times. But with five minutes left and the Cajuns down by ten points. We headed cold and tired and a bit disappointed to the exit. We listened to the rest of the game on the way home. The Cajuns scored 14 points in 5 minutes and won the game.  As Nicky said, “I’m so upset we left before the game was over.”  That will preach. There was one disturbing moment during the game. At half time, two UL graduates were honored as outstanding. One of them was Judge Brown, the first black woman appointed to the federal bench in Louisiana. She has an impressive resume’. As the announcer was reviewing her resume’ he mentioned that she […]