Author: Nick

You must not fear them, for the Lord your God, Himself fights for you. Deuteronomy 3:22 …we have an advocate with the Father-Jesus Christ, the Righteous One. 1 John 2:1 We are more than conquerors through Him who loved us. Romans 8:37 The Lord your God, who goes before you, He will fight for you… Deuteronomy 1:30 The Lord will fight for you, and you shall hold your peace. Exodus 14:14 You will not need to fight in this battle. Position yourselves, stand still and see the salvation of the Lord, who is with you. 2 Chronicles 20:17 The battle is the Lord’s. 1 Samuel 17:47 The Lord is a man of war; the Lord is His name. Exodus 15:3 But you, LORD, are a shield around me, my glory, the One who lifts my head high. Psalm 3:3 A follower of Jesus loves his quiet time. In those times, I regain perspective. My tensions loosen. I am renewed. My quiet times are a little different. My quiet times come while I swim. They are not technically “quiet.” I swim with waterproof earbuds. Music, or more rarely a good book, provides the environment. He speaks and, at least sometimes, […]

Sometimes I feel that the natural state of man is to feel restless and alone. That is not to say that we always feel both together, alone and restless. Or that we always feel one or the other. It’s just that I often feel one or the other or both. I sometimes have these feelings when they make no sense.  I have felt alone in a crowded room as well as on a solitary walk. I have felt restless when that might be better described as boredom, nothing to do, as well as when my to-do list was as long as my arm. I could be “alone” in these feelings, but I don’t think so. As I’ve written recently, depression is epidemic and it seems depression, restlessness and the sense of being alone, all march together.  I can hear some readers saying, “You just need to get out more.” (It’s a great gift to be able to hear readers even before words are read or even written. ) I should say that this condition is not, at least in my case, caused by a lack of loving human relationships. My wife and family are great. I have good friends […]

I spent some time recently in a horrible place. I have called it “a pit” and it was. But it was nothing like the pit Betsy and Corrie ten Boom experienced. They spent time in a concentration camp during WWII. They were not Jews but were sent to the camp for helping Jews. They managed to sneak in a Bible and shared God’s Good News with other prisoners. Betsy died in the camp. While still alive she would tell Corrie, “Be thankful for the fleas.” Turns out the fleas kept the guards out and allowed the worship services they led. It is said, that as she lay dying in her flea-infested barracks, she said, “There is no pit so deep that He is not deeper still.” I led a chapel service at The Refinery, a men’s shelter in Opelousas Tuesday night. One of the men shared his heart with me after and I counseled him as best I could. I guess I did okay, but I wasn’t awesome. The Spirit seemed to take over and he wept as we prayed together. Even that weak effort felt good, but it was in a very protected environment while I was already […]

A friend recently sent me a great article that offered advice to those over 65. https://maybienvh.wordpress.com/2018/05/24/between-65-and-death/ If you know me, you know I think such articles can be improved. Here’s my attempt. The “Golden” years of “retirement are our last and best effort to be awesome. Let’s not miss this chance. Here are some tips. I would appreciate it more.  01 – Be realistic about your finances. Most fear they don’t have enough to live on, but life can be cheaper as you age. My wife and I realize we can split entrees at restaurants if we can agree on the entrees. That’s just one example. My observation is that some are just addicted to work or to making money or just don’t want to be home with the spouse. Be realistic. For most, it really is time to stop and smell the roses.  02 – Stop worrying about the financial situation of your children and grandchildren , and don’t feel bad spending your money on yourself . You’ve taken care of them for many years , and you’ve taught them what you could . Be like the momma bird, it’s time to toss them out of the nest and […]

I have a really busy day today. I am writing this at 4:15. I need to go swimming early because I have a breakfast meeting at 6:30. I have a doctor’s appointment with my neurosurgeon at 10. Rosemary has appointments starting at 1. I have to lead a chapel service at the men’s shelter in Opelousas at 6:30. I am in the middle of a yard cleaning project outside.  Today isn’t typical as far as my calendar goes; but it is typical in that my day includes things that I can’t do alone. I am constantly reminded that I am dependent on Him. When it seems like I have things under control, something unexpected comes up: A tooth filling falls out. A bill I didn’t expect comes in the mail. A family member needs something. The most dangerous times are when I think “I’ve got this.” I have to constantly remind myself that these “challenges” arise from the love of my Father for me. He wants me dependent on Him and He will do what it takes for me to be dependent. It may seem uncomfortable at first, but it’s really the only place of peace.  I don’t have […]

In the eleven years I was in the Navy, we lived in about thirty different places. Each was as much home as our current residence of thirty years. It’s been great to be in the same place so long.  The house is full of mostly good memories.  We are, however, getting the feeling that it’s time to move. Getting  up to the second floor is getting tougher and we don’t see that getting any easier as we age. Keeping up the house and yard is becoming a chalenge. We would love to be closer to family, church and the places we like to eat and shop. A move seems the right move, yet we are dragging our feet. The familiar is so comfortable.  Similarly, this world no longer feels like home. This feeling is somewhat, but not completely age related. I know that this world is not our home. I know Jesus will call me from it at precisely the right time. Until then I have a mission and a purpose. As to our residence, I’m trusting the Lord will make it clear when and to where a move is needed. I also trust it will be mission related. […]

To be sorry is to have a feeling of deep distress caused by loss, disappointment, or other misfortune suffered by oneself or others. We are sorry and depressed people. During 2011–2014, about one in eight Americans aged 12 and over reported taking antidepressants in the previous month. Antidepressant use increased with age and was twice as common among females as males.  Long-term antidepressant use was common. One-fourth of all people who took antidepressants in the past month reported having taken them for 10 years or more. Antidepressant use increased nearly 65% over a 15-year time frame, from 7.7% in 1999–2002 to 12.7% in 2011–2014.  Is there help in the Word? “My soul is weary with sorrow; strengthen me according to your word.” Psalm 119:28.  This is just one of many scriptures promising peace and joy- the antithesis of sorrow and depression in Following Jesus and reading His Word. In 2019, 65% of Americans identified as Christians, down from 77% in 2009. As fewer of us identify as Christians and therefore are less likely to look for help in scripture, there has been an increase in looking to medicine for relief from our “sorrow” and depression.  Is that same reduction […]

The captain of a battleship at sea noted a light on a dangerous collision course. The captain immediately ordered his signalman to signal: “We are on a collision course. I advise you to change course 20 degrees east.” Back came a response from the other ship: “You change course 20 degrees west.” Agitated by the arrogance of the response, the captain asked his signalman to shoot out another message: “I am a captain, you change course 20 degrees east.” Back came the second response: “I am a second class seaman, you had still better change course 20 degrees west.” The captain was furious this time! He shouted to the signalman to send back a final message: “I am a battleship. Change course 20 degrees east right now!: Back came the flashing response: “I am a lighthouse.” The captain duly changed course. My child, don’t reject the Lord’s discipline,     and don’t be upset when he corrects you.  For the Lord corrects those he loves,     just as a father corrects a child in whom he delights. Proverbs 3:11-12 I never noticed in this familiar verse that we have the option to reject, or in some translations ignore the discipline of the Lord. Of course, […]